Archive for 2025

The Packard and My Dad

(Veuillez voir ci-dessous une traduction automatique de ce message en français.)

A letter to the new owner of the Packard

Ms. Charbonneau,

Some 12 years ago you received a gift that had been beloved in our family for some 26 years. I went with my dad to pick up the Packard from a guy who was selling it in Pennsylvania in 1986. It was originally black, but it received a magnificent and factory-standard Packard cream paint job. I waited with him over several months to find and re-chrome the letters on the front and side. I watched the car come together over a few years. Once the car was perfect, he loved to take it out and just drive it wherever. He would even laugh, enjoying the thrill of trying to stop that giant hunk of metal with those original-style drum brakes!

After more than 25 years of caring for it, he was, of course melancholy at selling the Packard. But it was time. He had fewer opportunities to take it out because he and my mom, Marlene split their time between New Jersey and Florida. And even when he was in New Jersey, where the car was garaged, the car only came out on special occasions. And there was the nuisance that he was about to lose the garage due to some upcoming HOA rules changes.

He loved that car!

The “desktop” image on his computer for some ten years was of me, my sister, and his granddaughter washing the car in our driveway on a summer day. I’d ask him every now and then if he wanted to update the photo and he’d laugh, pause a moment and say, “Nah! Leave it there. I like it!”

I don’t know you at all but I heard that the ’51 Packard had been your dream car for a very long time. I’m glad, and my dad was glad that you appreciated the car.

I’m writing to tell you that my dad passed away last April. I don’t know what that might even mean to you but I thought you should know.

I’d appreciate a brief message back confirming this message found its destination. Thank you.

Best regards,
Lee C. Sonko

 


Lettre au nouveau propriétaire de la Packard

Madame Charbonneau,

Il y a une douzaine d’années, vous avez reçu un cadeau que notre famille chérissait depuis 26 ans. J’ai accompagné mon père pour récupérer la Packard chez un vendeur en Pennsylvanie en 1986. Elle était noire à l’origine, mais elle a été refaite avec une magnifique peinture crème Packard standard. J’ai attendu avec lui pendant plusieurs mois pour retrouver et rechromer les lettres à l’avant et sur les côtés. J’ai vu la voiture prendre forme pendant quelques années. Une fois parfaite, il adorait la sortir et la conduire partout. Il riait même, savourant le frisson d’essayer d’arrêter cet énorme morceau de métal avec ces freins à tambour d’origine !

Après plus de 25 ans d’entretien, il était bien sûr mélancolique à l’idée de vendre la Packard. Mais le moment était venu. Il avait moins d’occasions de la sortir, car lui et ma mère, Marlene, partageaient leur temps entre le New Jersey et la Floride. Et même lorsqu’il était dans le New Jersey, où la voiture était garée, elle ne sortait que pour les grandes occasions. Et il y avait le désagrément qu’il allait perdre le garage à cause de changements imminents au règlement de l’association des propriétaires.

Il adorait cette voiture !

L’image « bureau » sur son ordinateur pendant une dizaine d’années était celle de moi, ma sœur et sa petite-fille en train de laver la voiture dans notre allée un jour d’été. Je lui demandais de temps en temps s’il voulait mettre à jour la photo et il riait, marquait une pause et disait : « Non ! Laisse-la là. Je l’aime bien !»

Je ne te connais pas du tout, mais j’ai entendu dire que la Packard 51 était la voiture de tes rêves depuis très longtemps. J’en suis ravi, et mon père était ravi que tu aies apprécié la voiture.

Je t’écris pour t’annoncer le décès de mon père en avril dernier. Je ne sais pas ce que cela signifie pour toi, mais je pensais que tu devais le savoir.

J’apprécierais un bref message confirmant que ce message est bien arrivé à destination. Merci.

Cordialement,
Lee C. Sonko

RFK Measles Vitamin A

Is it concerning that RFK has started recommending Vitamin A for the measles?
The CDC Measles page on December 26th didn’t mention Vitamin A but today’s page does.

The key question is: does Vitamin A help fight Measles? Yeah, it helps, according to this study.

I wanted to call RFK koo-koo crazypants, but the recommendation isn’t without some merit.

I had to do some refresher into what RR and CI (relative risk and confidence intervals) mean. But if the that Cochrane study is legit, then the recommendation is fairly legit. Of course, if the immunization is safer and effectiver than vitamin A therapy, one should start with that (ie. immunize your kids!!!! Yes, the vaccine is an order of magnitude more safe and effective than going commando!!!!!). But Vitamin A treatment isn’t a K-K-CP recommendation.

Board Games

I’ve been playing board games with a new group of friends lately. It’s been great!

Last night, we played:

The Mind – Cards are numbered 1-100. Players have to wordlessly try to fill the discard pile in the proper order. Fun and so easy to learn.

Love Letter – Card game with about 10 characters, each with a power. By carefully noticing what’s being played by others, you try to guess what card they have in their hand and knock them out. Mix of luck and careful observation!

Captain Sonar – a 4 player vs 4 player game where 2 submarine crews try to destroy the other sub. Thrilling, and a little complicated in how the players have to work together to drive the sub to victory.

Trump Politicking with Zelensky

Why did the Trump-Zelensky meeting turn on its head so quickly? I watched the meeting very carefully and here’s what I think the conversation was between Trump and JD was earlier that day.

“JD, when I say ‘All right, one more question’ we’re going to work together to throw the whole deal. He’ll go back to Europe and all the European countries will say, ‘Oh you didn’t deserve that treatment, we’ll support you and give you money’. And then, eventually we’ll get back in because, I mean, we really do want to hold the line with Russia at this buffer country. But by doing it this way, Putin thinks he has a chance with me and Europe is convinced to put in more money to hold Russia, saving us billions of dollars. And my reputation as a capricious deal maker is maintained.”

Here’s the moment the conversation turns:

The tell for me is that the discussion was going so swimmingly well for most of the meeting. When Zelensky says, “You have nice oceans and don’t feel now but you will feel it in the future.” got Trump very agitated. But that was a call-back from just 10 minutes earlier and wasn’t seen as inflammatory then.

Wildflower Season / Gopher Season

My wildflower garden (previously) is starting to come up! Yay!

The gophers made their first pass this week. Boo!

Defense engaged!

 

Bluesky

You can now also find me on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/gadlen.bsky.social . Facebook and https://lee.org are still my primary social media, but that is shifting.

I figured out a reasonable way to find my Facebook friends on Bluesky: Each friend hopefully posted a message like I did. So when I do a Facebook search for “bsky.app/profile” and then limit that search to Posts made by Friends, it should find all of my friends switching.

Obituary of Irene R. Sonko 1912-2014

My grandmother passed away 11 years ago. Her funeral was at Moore’s Home for Funerals in Wayne NJ. The home has closed its doors so I am reposting her obituary here.


(original)
In Memory of Irene R. Sonko 1912-2014

Obituary of Irene R. Sonko
Irene R. (Polachek) Sonko, age 102, went home to be with the Lord on Saturday, December 6, 2014. Mrs. Sonko was born December 3, 1912 in Hungary, the daughter of the late Joseph and the late Elizabeth Polachek. She lived in Lincoln Park. She was employed as a Factory Worker for many years before retiring. Mrs. Sonko was a member of St. Joseph’s R.C. Church, Lincoln Park.

Beloved wife of the late Lee Sonko, Devoted mother of Rita Temes, Lee and his wife Marlene Sonko and the late Marcia Sonko, Loving sister of Helen Yobbagy, Devoted grandmother of Wendy and her husband Justin Sabino, Craig and his wife Soraida Temes, Bart Temes, Melissa Sonko and Lee Sonko, Jr., Great grandmother of Alexa, Arianna, Craig, Michael, Jenelle, Julia and Tiffany and Dear aunt of Pat & Barbara.

Visiting hours will be Wednesday from 6-9 p.m.

The funeral Mass will be Thursday at 10:00 a.m. at St. Joseph’s R.C. Church, Lincoln Park and will be celebrated by Father Thomas Mangieri.

Interment will be in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, Totowa.

Memorials may be made to St. Joseph’s R.C. Church, 216 Comly Road, Lincoln Park, NJ 07035

Trump’s War on Gender

I hope that, in time, this page sits as an archive of a short but terribly stupid period in American history.

Trump had all the government websites with information about “gender ideology” removed. They came back online a few days later with this asinine language on them. What, you ask, is “gender ideology”? Quite simply, it is “gender”.

HHS Access to Healthcare

 

 

CDC Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System

The asinine language:

Per a court order, HHS is required to restore this website as of [February 11, 2025 at 11:59 p.m]. Any information on this page promoting gender ideology is extremely inaccurate and disconnected from the immutable biological reality that there are two sexes, male and female. The Trump Administration rejects gender ideology and condemns the harms it causes to children, by promoting their chemical and surgical mutilation, and to women, by depriving them of their dignity, safety, well-being, and opportunities. This page does not reflect biological reality and therefore the Administration and this Department rejects it.

Content created by Assistant Secretary for Health (ASH)
Content last reviewed February 18, 2025

 

 

The Pope Slaps JD Vance

Pope Francis just said to JD Vance, “You just claimed your foreign policy follows Catholic doctrine? Shut your mouth… and meditate.”

To summarize: JD Vance claimed in an interview that new US foreign policy (ie withdrawing all foreign aid everywhere abruptly by closing USAID) followed Ordo Amoris.

The pope responded, writing a letter to his bishops saying, “Christian love is not a concentric expansion of interests that little by little extend to other persons and groups. The true ordo amoris that must be promoted is that which we discover by meditating constantly on the parable of the ‘Good Samaritan’ (cf. Lk 10:25-37), that is, by meditating on the love that builds a fraternity open to all, without exception.”

Orienteering

Abigail and I went Orienteering this weekend. It was epic!

I had gone when I was about 10 years old with my dad and it is a memory and feeling I cherish dearly! I am so glad to have shared this experience, in a whole new way, with my daughter!