Archive for the ‘General’ Category.

On Being Lucky

Sometimes I think about how lucky I am.

In 2007, I was there at Burning Man as The Man was burned early by a prankster, Paul Addis.

In 2010, I got to meet the man who did it. You may be able to tell in those photos that I appreciated this particular man’s free spirit, showing up to an event, years later, wearing face paint idolizing him!

In 2012, he jumped in front of a subway train. Not so merry, after-all.

 

 

The San Francisco Chronicle wrote about Paul Addis after his passing:

Addis served nearly two years in prison in Nevada after the August 2007 stunt in Black Rock Desert in which he set the 40-foot-tall man-statue ablaze ahead of schedule. He told The Chronicle after his arrest on arson and other charges that Burning Man had become too suburban and needed spontaneity.

“This was not an act of vengeance, it was one of love,” Addis said. “A love of the ethos that is fading at Burning Man. There’s no sense of spontaneity. No sense of ‘F- it. Let’s burn this down.’ “

Letter to Unilever and Ben and Jerry’s Ice Cream about their Social Mission

I sent this letter to Unilever today on their website.

I hear that Unilever recently fired the CEO of Ben and Jerry’s due to social mission disagreements and has blocked many of the social mission outreaches that the Ben and Jerry’s Independent Board has approved of.

When you bought Ben and Jerry’s in 2000, you bought their social mission too. It is in the contract.

If you abandon Ben and Jerry’s social mission, I will stop purchasing your product and strongly suggest to my friends the same. Please uphold your end the agreement.

A response would be appreciated. Thank you,
Lee Sonko

Reference: https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2025/03/19/ben-jerrys-ceo-unilever/

Apple Pay vs Google Wallet vs Tap to Pay

Yesterday I was out with the family at a restaurant and when it came time to pay, the server asked if I wanted to pay “with Apple Pay”. I was just a tiny bit bothered since I use Google Wallet. I asked “why didn’t you call it “Tap to Pay” or something?” What he said surprised me!

“In a day, I might have 50 people tap and 49 of them will use an iPhone!”

Wow, I had no idea! I thought the split was in the realm of 50-50 iPhone vs Android users!

I did some googling and browsing Reddit threads and there’s no consistency to who uses what, so I’ll assume that it really is a fairly even split but there are geographic and social pockets of each system. Weird!

Done with Social Media as a Social Medium

I invited 12 friends to that Tiger Trials thing, after stressing and failing to invite 2 families (which is how many spaces there are), and then failing to get any takers at all after posting on Facebook, a local Facebook school group, Mastadon, and my blog. I included this important message in my invite:

I’m tired of social media not helping to create community, but instead creating a feeling of isolation. So I’m going to try emailing more often. I hope it’s a welcome shift. Telephone and texting are still welcome, but email seems like the right middle-ground to invite a group of friends to an event where there is less of an expectation to attend. That said, feel free to not respond to this email! I might check in with you if it seems you didn’t get my message, they sometimes fall into spam holes!

Tiger Trials in Berkeley

I heard about Tiger Trials on Berkeley Family Friends Facebook Group. It’s an Amazing Race-like challenge happening near the Berkeley Marina on March 23rd 9am-1pm. It’s a fundraiser for Longfellow Middle School, but more importantly, it’s being written by a writer for the TV show Survivor, and sounds like a blast. Would you like to form a team with my family?  https://runsignup.com/Race/CA/Berkeley/TigerTrials

 

My Favorite Meme

Here is my favorite late-night meme.

I love love love that there are many variants of this, the “shooting star meme” on Imgur. I insist that the best ones all involve the somersaulting guy and that music track, cruising around the universe. I’m going to try and collect them :-)

 

Rodney Dangerfield shooting star meme!

The Packard and My Dad

A letter to the new owner of the Packard

Ms. Charbonneau,

Some 12 years ago you received a gift that had been beloved in our family for some 26 years. I went with my dad to pick up the Packard from a guy who was selling it in Pennsylvania in 1986. It was originally black, but it received a magnificent and factory-standard Packard cream paint job. I waited with him to find and re-chrome the letters on the front and side. I watched it come together over a few years. He loved to take that car out and just drive it. He even enjoyed the thrill of trying to stop that giant hunk of metal with those original-style drum brakes!

He was of course melancholy at selling the Packard. But it had become time. He had fewer opportunities to take it out because he and my mom Marlene split their time between New Jersey and Florida. And even when he was in New Jersey, where the car was garaged, the car only came out on special occasions. And there was the nuisance that he was about to lose the garage due to some upcoming HOA rules changes.

He loved that car!

The “desktop” image on his computer for some ten years was of me, my sister, and his granddaughter washing the car on a summer day. I’d ask him every now and then if he wanted to update the photo and he’d laugh, pause a moment and say, “Nah! Leave it there. I like it!”

I don’t know you at all but I heard that the ’51 Packard had been your dream car for a very long time. I’m glad, and my dad was glad that you appreciated the car.

I’m writing to tell you that my dad passed away last April. I don’t know what that might even mean to you but I thought you should know.

I’m not sure if this message will reach you. I found your email address online. I’d appreciate a brief message back confirming this message found its destination. Thank you.

Best regards,
Lee C. Sonko

RFK Measles Vitamin A

Is it concerning that RFK has started recommending Vitamin A for the measles?
The CDC Measles page on December 26th didn’t mention Vitamin A but today’s page does.

The key question is: does Vitamin A help fight Measles? Yeah, it helps, according to this study.

I wanted to call RFK koo-koo crazypants, but the recommendation isn’t without some merit.

I had to do some refresher into what RR and CI (relative risk and confidence intervals) mean. But if the that Cochrane study is legit, then the recommendation is fairly legit. Of course, if the immunization is safer and effectiver than vitamin A therapy, one should start with that (ie. immunize your kids!!!! Yes, the vaccine is an order of magnitude more safe and effective than going commando!!!!!). But Vitamin A treatment isn’t a K-K-CP recommendation.

Trump Politicking with Zelensky

Why did the Trump-Zelensky meeting turn on its head so quickly? I watched the meeting very carefully and here’s what I think the conversation was between Trump and JD was earlier that day.

“JD, when I say ‘All right, one more question’ we’re going to work together to throw the whole deal. He’ll go back to Europe and all the European countries will say, ‘Oh you didn’t deserve that treatment, we’ll support you and give you money’. And then, eventually we’ll get back in because, I mean, we really do want to hold the line with Russia at this buffer country. But by doing it this way, Putin thinks he has a chance with me and Europe is convinced to put in more money to hold Russia, saving us billions of dollars. And my reputation as a capricious deal maker is maintained.”

Here’s the moment the conversation turns:

The tell for me is that the discussion was going so swimmingly well for most of the meeting. When Zelensky says, “You have nice oceans and don’t feel now but you will feel it in the future.” got Trump very agitated. But that was a call-back from just 10 minutes earlier and wasn’t seen as inflammatory then.

Wildflower Season / Gopher Season

My wildflower garden (previously) is starting to come up! Yay!

The gophers made their first pass this week. Boo!

Defense engaged!