On Being Lucky

Sometimes I think about how lucky I am.

In 2007, I was there at Burning Man as The Man was burned early by a prankster, Paul Addis.

In 2010, I got to meet the man who did it. You may be able to tell in those photos that I appreciated this particular man’s free spirit, showing up to an event, years later, wearing face paint idolizing him!

In 2012, he jumped in front of a subway train. Not so merry, after-all.

 

 

The San Francisco Chronicle wrote about Paul Addis after his passing:

Addis served nearly two years in prison in Nevada after the August 2007 stunt in Black Rock Desert in which he set the 40-foot-tall man-statue ablaze ahead of schedule. He told The Chronicle after his arrest on arson and other charges that Burning Man had become too suburban and needed spontaneity.

“This was not an act of vengeance, it was one of love,” Addis said. “A love of the ethos that is fading at Burning Man. There’s no sense of spontaneity. No sense of ‘F- it. Let’s burn this down.’ “

The Crew: The Quest for Planet Nine

Tonight at Juku’s monthly gaming night, I played The Crew: The Quest for Planet Nine, a rather fun trick-taking game!

Moreso, Abigail came and really enjoyed playing with the other kids there!

It was a win of a night!

Letter to Unilever and Ben and Jerry’s Ice Cream about their Social Mission

I sent this letter to Unilever today on their website.

I hear that Unilever recently fired the CEO of Ben and Jerry’s due to social mission disagreements and has blocked many of the social mission outreaches that the Ben and Jerry’s Independent Board has approved of.

When you bought Ben and Jerry’s in 2000, you bought their social mission too. It is in the contract.

If you abandon Ben and Jerry’s social mission, I will stop purchasing your product and strongly suggest to my friends the same. Please uphold your end the agreement.

A response would be appreciated. Thank you,
Lee Sonko

Reference: https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2025/03/19/ben-jerrys-ceo-unilever/

Apple Pay vs Google Wallet vs Tap to Pay

Yesterday I was out with the family at a restaurant and when it came time to pay, the server asked if I wanted to pay “with Apple Pay”. I was just a tiny bit bothered since I use Google Wallet. I asked “why didn’t you call it “Tap to Pay” or something?” What he said surprised me!

“In a day, I might have 50 people tap and 49 of them will use an iPhone!”

Wow, I had no idea! I thought the split was in the realm of 50-50 iPhone vs Android users!

I did some googling and browsing Reddit threads and there’s no consistency to who uses what, so I’ll assume that it really is a fairly even split but there are geographic and social pockets of each system. Weird!

Done with Social Media as a Social Medium

I invited 12 friends to that Tiger Trials thing, after stressing and failing to invite 2 families (which is how many spaces there are), and then failing to get any takers at all after posting on Facebook, a local Facebook school group, Mastadon, and my blog. I included this important message in my invite:

I’m tired of social media not helping to create community, but instead creating a feeling of isolation. So I’m going to try emailing more often. I hope it’s a welcome shift. Telephone and texting are still welcome, but email seems like the right middle-ground to invite a group of friends to an event where there is less of an expectation to attend. That said, feel free to not respond to this email! I might check in with you if it seems you didn’t get my message, they sometimes fall into spam holes!

Played Terraforming Mars: The Dice Game

At Monday gaming I played Terraforming Mars: The Dice Game for the first time. It felt like I was almost entirely playing my own game of building and only occasionally interacting with the other players. The cards and dice and such are fun, with nice quality images and such. It felt like there was a bit of slightly clunky artifice built into the game, scoring points for various things, but still it was fun learning the game. And it was certainly fun playing with friends.

 

 

Tiger Trials in Berkeley

I heard about Tiger Trials on Berkeley Family Friends Facebook Group. It’s an Amazing Race-like challenge happening near the Berkeley Marina on March 23rd 9am-1pm. It’s a fundraiser for Longfellow Middle School, but more importantly, it’s being written by a writer for the TV show Survivor, and sounds like a blast. Would you like to form a team with my family?  https://runsignup.com/Race/CA/Berkeley/TigerTrials

 

Good Honda Dealership Auto Service

I just yesterday went to my local (El Cerrito) Honda dealer for 4 tires (they were worn, at 2/32″, and one had a slow leak), alignment, and oil change. $1325. I’m very happy with the service and price. I’ll return. I’m happily surprised that “the dealer” had a competitive price, and still offered “dealer” service! I had multiple “Ok, I guess.” experiences at Adams Autoworx in El Cerrito.

An important part of the experience is feeling like the service manager is “on your side”. I didn’t feel like Ronnie at Adams was my ally, but Guillermo at the dealership has got my back!

 

My Favorite Meme

Here is my favorite late-night meme.

I love love love that there are many variants of this, the “shooting star meme” on Imgur. I insist that the best ones all involve the somersaulting guy and that music track, cruising around the universe. I’m going to try and collect them :-)

 

Rodney Dangerfield shooting star meme!

The Packard and My Dad

(Veuillez voir ci-dessous une traduction automatique de ce message en français.)

A letter to the new owner of the Packard

Ms. Charbonneau,

Some 12 years ago you received a gift that had been beloved in our family for some 26 years. I went with my dad to pick up the Packard from a guy who was selling it in Pennsylvania in 1986. It was originally black, but it received a magnificent and factory-standard Packard cream paint job. I waited with him over several months to find and re-chrome the letters on the front and side. I watched the car come together over a few years. Once the car was perfect, he loved to take it out and just drive it wherever. He would even laugh, enjoying the thrill of trying to stop that giant hunk of metal with those original-style drum brakes!

After more than 25 years of caring for it, he was, of course melancholy at selling the Packard. But it was time. He had fewer opportunities to take it out because he and my mom, Marlene split their time between New Jersey and Florida. And even when he was in New Jersey, where the car was garaged, the car only came out on special occasions. And there was the nuisance that he was about to lose the garage due to some upcoming HOA rules changes.

He loved that car!

The “desktop” image on his computer for some ten years was of me, my sister, and his granddaughter washing the car in our driveway on a summer day. I’d ask him every now and then if he wanted to update the photo and he’d laugh, pause a moment and say, “Nah! Leave it there. I like it!”

I don’t know you at all but I heard that the ’51 Packard had been your dream car for a very long time. I’m glad, and my dad was glad that you appreciated the car.

I’m writing to tell you that my dad passed away last April. I don’t know what that might even mean to you but I thought you should know.

I’d appreciate a brief message back confirming this message found its destination. Thank you.

Best regards,
Lee C. Sonko

 


Lettre au nouveau propriétaire de la Packard

Madame Charbonneau,

Il y a une douzaine d’années, vous avez reçu un cadeau que notre famille chérissait depuis 26 ans. J’ai accompagné mon père pour récupérer la Packard chez un vendeur en Pennsylvanie en 1986. Elle était noire à l’origine, mais elle a été refaite avec une magnifique peinture crème Packard standard. J’ai attendu avec lui pendant plusieurs mois pour retrouver et rechromer les lettres à l’avant et sur les côtés. J’ai vu la voiture prendre forme pendant quelques années. Une fois parfaite, il adorait la sortir et la conduire partout. Il riait même, savourant le frisson d’essayer d’arrêter cet énorme morceau de métal avec ces freins à tambour d’origine !

Après plus de 25 ans d’entretien, il était bien sûr mélancolique à l’idée de vendre la Packard. Mais le moment était venu. Il avait moins d’occasions de la sortir, car lui et ma mère, Marlene, partageaient leur temps entre le New Jersey et la Floride. Et même lorsqu’il était dans le New Jersey, où la voiture était garée, elle ne sortait que pour les grandes occasions. Et il y avait le désagrément qu’il allait perdre le garage à cause de changements imminents au règlement de l’association des propriétaires.

Il adorait cette voiture !

L’image « bureau » sur son ordinateur pendant une dizaine d’années était celle de moi, ma sœur et sa petite-fille en train de laver la voiture dans notre allée un jour d’été. Je lui demandais de temps en temps s’il voulait mettre à jour la photo et il riait, marquait une pause et disait : « Non ! Laisse-la là. Je l’aime bien !»

Je ne te connais pas du tout, mais j’ai entendu dire que la Packard 51 était la voiture de tes rêves depuis très longtemps. J’en suis ravi, et mon père était ravi que tu aies apprécié la voiture.

Je t’écris pour t’annoncer le décès de mon père en avril dernier. Je ne sais pas ce que cela signifie pour toi, mais je pensais que tu devais le savoir.

J’apprécierais un bref message confirmant que ce message est bien arrivé à destination. Merci.

Cordialement,
Lee C. Sonko