I recently got one of those “forward this to all your friends” emails. It offended me so much that I wrote a response and sent it to all 100 or so people I found in the Forwarded by… list.
First the letter, and then my response.
The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday Morning Commentary, Sunday, 12/18/05.
Here at this happy time of year, a few confessions from my beating heart: I have no freaking clue who Nick and Jessica are. I see them on the cover of People and Us constantly when I am buying my dog biscuits and kitty litter. I often ask the checkers at the grocery stores. They never know who Nick and Jessica are either. Who are they? Will it change my life if I know who they are and why they have broken up? Why are they so important? I don’t know who Lindsay Lohan is either, and I do not care at all about Tom Cruise’s wife.
Am I going to be called before a Senate committee and asked if I am a subversive? Maybe, but I just have no clue who Nick and Jessica are. If this is what it means to be no longer young. It’s not so bad.Next confession:
I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees Christmas trees. I don’t feel threatened. I don’t feel discriminated against. That’s what they are: Christmas trees. It doesn’t bother me a bit when people say, “Merry Christmas” to me. I don’t think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a ghetto. In fact, I
kind of like it. It shows that we are all brothers and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn’t bother me at all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my beach house in Malibu. If people want a creche, it’s just as fine with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away.
I don’t like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don’t think Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around, period. I have no idea where the concept came from that America is an explicitly atheist country. I can’t find it in the Constitution, and I don’t like it being shoved down my throat.
Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we should worship Nick and Jessica and we aren’t allowed to worship God as we understand Him?
I guess that’s a sign that I’m getting old, too.
But there are a lot of us who are wondering where Nick and Jessica came from and where the America we knew went to.
[start of second section. This break was not in the message sent to me. It just went right from the previous paragraph into the next]
In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a little different: This is not intended to be a joke, it’s not funny, it’s intended to get you thinking.
Billy Graham’s daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson asked her “How could God let something like this Happen?” (regarding Katrina)
Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response. She said, “I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for years we’ve been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives.
And being the gentleman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out. How can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand He leave us alone?”
In light of recent events…terrorists attack, school shootings, etc. I think it started when Madeleine Murray O’Hare (she was murdered, her body found recently) complained she didn’t want prayer in our schools, and we said OK.
Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school . the Bible says thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor as yourself. And we said OK.
Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn’t spank our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem (Dr. Spock’s son committed suicide). We said an expert should know what he’s talking about. And we said OK.
Now we’re asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don’t know right from wrong, and why it doesn’t bother them to kill strangers, their classmates, and themselves.
Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out. I think it has a great deal to do with “WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.”
Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world’s going to hell. Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the Bible says!
Funny how you can send ‘jokes’ through e-mail and they spread like wildfire but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing.
Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and workplace.
Are you laughing?
Funny how when you forward this message, you will not send it to many on your address list because you’re not sure what they believe, or what they WILL think of you for sending it. Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us.Pass it on if you think it has merit. If not then just discard it… no one will know you did. But, if you discard this thought process, don’t sit back and complain about what bad shape the world is in.
And my response to all hundred people.
If you believe in the God of the New Testament, then you should be horribly offended by Anne Graham’s disrespectful remarks. Since the birth of Christ, God has not sent a plague upon the earth.
While there was tremendous loss of property, the final death toll for this city of 1.2 million was less than 1,000 people. That’s how many Americans are killed in car accidents EVERY WEEK.
Does anyone today liken the great flu pandemic of 1918 to a plague or message sent by God? 20-40 million people were killed. If we don’t remember that as God’s hand, then Katrina was nothing and Billy Graham’s daughter is a dangerous fear monger that should be ignored.
In addition, Ben Stein is being misquoted. While he did say the first half of this quote on “CBS Sunday Morning”, he did not say the second half, the part starting, “In light of the many jokes we send…”
Christians believe in a loving God. What do you believe?
Lee Sonko
http://lee.org
After a day, I have not received any letters in response.

March 25th, 2006 at 6:23 am
Not only is Ben Stein misquoted, but Benjamin Spock’s son did not kill himself, although his grandson did, and is in fact still alive. http://www.snopes.com/medical/doctor/drspock.htm
March 25th, 2006 at 1:03 pm
Ah, Maura got there ahead of me–I was also about to point out that Dr. Spock’s son did not commit suicide. But then again, I’m an obviously suspect source, since my own (never spanked) children are both about to graduate with honors from elite colleges. I can’t imagine how God missed them when smiting New Orleans!
December 13th, 2007 at 11:17 am
I believe in a perfect, just God who doesn’t excuse sin. He is though, gracious, evident in the man Jesus. In who’s life the propitiation of sin has been provided.
An end to suffering in this life was ever promised. Name one person who never suffered?
December 13th, 2007 at 11:30 am
Sean, what does your comment have to do with my post? And could you say what each of your sub-comments has to do with one another. They seem disjointed… “perfect God, “just God”, “God not excusing sin”, “gracious God, “propitian(sic) of sin”, “no promise of an end to suffering”…
May 21st, 2008 at 1:44 pm
Sean, your either a complete dope or I am confused by your comments in the first sentance of your responce both may be the case. A couple of questions would be; 1.Do you consider the birth of Christ a Plague or what “plague” came at that time? 2. How do you know God has not sent any real plagues since the NT? Do you think you have a personal hotline? Not to worry, your just a thin heart beat away from getting straight to ask Him.
May 22nd, 2008 at 10:31 am
Stan, you’re getting off the subject even more than Sean. Please stay on subject.
December 23rd, 2008 at 9:41 pm
Lee,
I know this thread is 2 years old but I just came across it.
I think you have mistaken Anne Graham’s point. It isn’t disrespectful at all.
She is not asserting that God is sending Plagues upon us but that in rejecting God at a National level we are also rejecting His protection which has kept this nation preserved since it’s inception.
God has throughout human history allowed tribulation upon His people in order that they might turn to Him in Repentance. Also The God of the new testament is not different from The God of the Old. Someday the Lamb of God will return as avenging Judge and King.