Wildcat 4H

We’ve been doing 4H for the last few years with our now 5th grader and very much enjoying it! Notably, the projects are engaging, run by committed volunteers; and the officer meetings are structured such that the kids run them, giving them ownership!

Come to the Ice Cream Info Session August 23rd from 2-4pm at the Arlington Park Clubhouse, or just sign-up at wildcat4h.org. Notably, it’s only $150 for the year for any and all projects your kid signs up for (except for some projects with material)

 

Amazing Grace

I originally learned to sing Amazing Grace when I was with Miriam and Rebecca a zillion years ago. Many books and histories have been written about it. The apocryphal background to the song is of the author who was on a ship that had slaves; the ship sank in a storm and as slaves and freemen alike were washing up on the shore, some living, some not, he had an epiphany about slavery and life.

When Abigail was born, it became a song I sang to her a lot. As a 10 year-old, when Abigail has had a particularly bad day, or a particularly good day, she asks me to sing it. Here are two live recordings.

June 18th, 2015. Abigail is 5 months old.

 

July 7th, 2017, Abigail is 2 1/2 years old.

Architects of the West Kingdom

A complex resource gathering and worker placement board game.

We finished the game in about 3 hours. By the end, I sorta-mostly understood how to play. Fun nonetheless!

Played last night with Kevin, William, Toni, and I met Paul for the first time.

A Fascist Says What?

In today’s fascist news…

Trump is (again) erasing actual facts from the public record because they make him look bad. NPR article: Trump’s impeachments have been removed from a Smithsonian exhibit, for now.

 

Trump is literally firing the messenger OR Trump is hiring a newspeak statistician. NPR article: Trump calls for firing of senior Labor official after job market weakens in July

I Have The Best Mechanical Pencil – The Sanford Logo II – In My Hands!

The best mechanical pencil in the world isn’t manufactured any more, but I just found a box of them on eBay! Yay!

The Sanford Logo II mechanical pencil was made in the 1990’s by Sanford and Paper Mate. No other pencil had all of the important features in one writing implement:

  1. Retractable tip so it doesn’t stick you in the leg
  2. Spring loaded tip makes writing smoother
  3. Solid feel
  4. Large eraser

It’s crazy that the bar never raised in mechanical pencil design! This literally was the pinnacle of mechanicals and the box says it was made in 1994, more than 30 years ago. I would understand about people saying “They don’t make ’em like they used to” about buggy whips, or record player. But people (as far as I know) still use pencils!!!

Here’s some archival photos of the box:

The closest match to the Logo II is the Skilcraft Dual Action. I bought a few on recommendation from commenters on my blog. It’s almost as good as the Logo II but for a few issues:

The Skilcraft is a little lighter so it doesn’t feel quite as solid in the hand. It doesn’t have the spring-loaded lead, making the writing experience a little less enjoyable. And my “fix” for the loose eraser doesn’t work on the Skilcraft, making the eraser more of a bother. One thing the Skilcraft has is a slightly more robust pocket clip.

I’ve lost the clip fiddle-thing from the end of the pencil holder on few of my Logo II’s, which leaves a fairly raw piece of metal sticking in my pocket. See the photo:

The box of 9 pencils set me back about $90 which honestly is very reasonable since I’ve bought them for $4.50 back in the aughties!

(previously)

 

Abigail’s Poetry

She wrote these this spring

 

 

Hills for miles and miles
Forest all around
I wish I could stay here forever
and you would too if you hear the sound
Of crinkling leaves beneath your feet
The wind in the trees
And the birds so petite
I wish I could stay here forever
I wish I could stay til I die
This place is more beautiful than I imagined, oh my oh my oh my

 

At the Bottom of the Ravine

Rushing rivers
Rushing rivers
So beautiful and clean
As the water flows through the rocks and the flint of sunlight beams
I sit here far upon a rock
In this beautiful creek
It’s just so peaceful here
And all the colors are so neat

Shadows falling, sun is shining
That’s all the creek
I see the shadows of the creatures swimming atop it
I think nothing can knock it off of this beautiful earth
That’s the river underneath

Nashville!

It was really terrific spending time in Nashville with my cousins a few weeks ago!

 

(oh and this is the first time I used my Google Pixel 9 for an “Add Me” photo. I took one photo, Abigail took another, and it magically stitched the two together, neat!)

Ryan Siedlecki ’14 CLAS Selected as Recipient of the 2025 Villanova University Alumni Association Young Alumni Medal

Hey, my cousin Ryan is a solid guy!

(via)

VILLANOVA, Pa. (July 9, 2025) – The Villanova University Alumni Association (VUAA) has named Ryan Siedlecki ’14 CLAS as the recipient of its 2025 Young Alumni Medal. The award honors alumni who have made outstanding contributions professionally, academically and in service to the University.

Siedlecki has remained deeply engaged with Villanova in the years since his graduation. In 2018, he partnered with the VUAA to establish the Villanova University Club of Nashville, for which he currently serves as president. Under his leadership, the club—affectionately known by members as “NashVillanova”—has hosted a variety of events, including St. Thomas of Villanova Day of Service outings, Wildcat Welcome receptions for local incoming students and basketball game watches and meet-ups. He has also welcomed University President the Rev. Peter M. Donohue, OSA, PhD, ’75 CLAS and other University leaders to Nashville as part of regional engagement efforts.

“Ryan has created countless meaningful opportunities for Villanova alumni to connect in Nashville,” said Sheila Doherty P ’23, ’25, Associate Vice President for Alumni Relations. “Through his leadership, the Club of Nashville has become an active and welcoming community. His efforts reflect the values of our incredible alumni network, and I’m so pleased to recognize him with the Young Alumni Medal.”

As an undergraduate, Siedlecki was actively involved across campus. He worked in the Villanova Athletics Media Relations department, supporting men’s basketball and other programs, served on Villanova University’s Special Olympics Committee and was a member of LEVEL, a student group focused on inclusion and accessibility.

“I’m honored and humbled to receive the 2025 Young Alumni Medal. The VUAA’s support in helping me establish an alumni chapter in my hometown of Nashville meant the world to me,” Siedlecki said. “During my time at Villanova, I learned several principles to live by, including that the one thing you can control, especially during times of adversity, is your attitude. I try to carry this mindset with me every day.”

Siedlecki earned a Bachelor of Arts in Communication from Villanova in 2014 and is a senior product analyst at HCA Healthcare in Nashville, Tenn. There, he leads a team of software developers in HCA’s Information Technology Group, supporting a patient-facing application used across hospitals and emergency departments. His contributions earned him a Clinical Development and Innovation (CDI) Recognition Award in 2023.

Siedlecki earned his MBA from Belmont University in 2020. He and his wife, Ashley, live in Nashville where they recently celebrated the birth of their first child, Scarlett Elizabeth.

Siedlecki’s continued commitment to Villanova, professional accomplishments and efforts to build community exemplify the spirit of the Young Alumni Medal, and the VUAA will honor him at a ceremony during Homecoming Weekend 2025.

About Villanova University: Since 1842, Villanova University’s Augustinian Catholic intellectual tradition has been the cornerstone of an academic community in which students learn to think critically, act compassionately and succeed while serving others. There are more than 10,000 undergraduate, graduate and law students in the University’s six colleges—the College of Liberal Arts and Sciences, the Villanova School of Business, the College of Engineering, the M. Louise Fitzpatrick College of Nursing, the College of Professional Studies and the Villanova University Charles Widger School of Law. Ranked among the nation’s top universities, Villanova supports its students’ intellectual growth and prepares them to become ethical leaders who create positive change everywhere life takes them. For more, visit www.villanova.edu.

Fun Sand Tube!

Last summer, Abigail and I were at a street fair in El Cerrito and there was a guy who let us make sand sculptures in bottles and clear tubes. It was so very fun! We made a few pens with colored sand and then we made this work of art for Megan!

Here is our note for Megan

Abigail and I put a beautiful amount of work into making that sand flower thing for you. Here’s the colors we put in it, starting from the top of the flower, going down :-)

Rainbow
Tree (black to green)
Volcano (black to reds and yellows)
Geyser (black to blues)
Family green, orange, purple
Rock formations:
Sapphire blue
Amethyst
Emerald
Diamond
Rose quartz
Family colors
Sulfur for Lassen (black to yellow)
The oranges and reds of sunset and fire (AKA, our wedding colors!)
Family colors
An awesome rainbow

With love,
Lee and Abigail

Ernestine McCarren in a KPR full-page ad

Here is a photo of my aunt, Ernestine McCarren in a full-page ad for the KPR (Kallir, Philips, Ross, Inc.) advertising agency. She helped market Tylenol and other medications in the 1980’s and 1990’s.

We danced together at Christmas but dementia has now taken her lovely energy from our world. When I think of her, I hear her saying her silly and uplifting “Oh Scu! Tank you, tank you!” in my mind, her nickname for me is “Scu” as in “Scooby Doo”, and she’d say “Thank you” with this most wonderful chime-tinkling voice!

She resides in a caring, well appointed facility near her former home in Florida.